Momma’s Boys
Baseball players truly are the boys of summer, and in this case the emphasis is on “boys.” That’s not a criticism- it’s actually an endearing quality exhibited by a number of Oriole players as I interacted with them on a recent visit to the clubhouse. I was working for MASN during the O’s series in Kansas City. On the day before Mother’s Day, we video taped a number of players wishing their moms a happy Mother’s Day- the greetings to be played during the telecast of the game on Sunday. Now, baseball players aren’t always the most willing when it comes to speaking on camera, but in this case- the subject was “mom” and they fought for the microphone. What a site to see tough guys get warm and sappy at the mere thought that their mom would see their greeting. Again- not a criticism, it was great to see that side of them. After wrapping up our clubhouse duty of recording the greetings, I left with the camera man to take the tape out to the production truck. Then while we were walking down the hallway outside the clubhouse, O’s pitcher Jeremy Guthrie came bursting through the door and chased after us. “Hey, I didn’t get to do mine! I want to do a greeting for my mom, ” he yelled. No problem, Jeremy. You got it. Great to see the kid come out of these grown men.
One of the greetings that struck me most was that done by Luke Scott. He told the story of when he was a young boy, and told his mom that he wanted to be a professional baseball player when he grew up. His mom encouraged him and said his ambition was a good one. “Why not?”, she told young Luke, “someone has to do it.” And with that simple affirmation, Luke pursued his dream.
What strikes me about that story is that I have a similar one to tell. When I was a sophomore in high school and pondering a college and career choice, I thought strongly that I wanted to do something other than pursue a business degree or go to dental school. What I REALLY wanted was to be a sports broadcaster. My mom had a dream that I would be a dentist. I vividly recall the day that I broke the news to her that I wanted to be a sports broadcaster. She was preparing dinner in the kitchen- tuna casserole to be exact (funny how we remember such details!). She looked at me as I told her of my dream. Upon hearing that I wanted to go to journalism school, she paused for a moment- then smiled. “That’s a great idea,” she said. “You’ll be great at that!”
I can get emotional recounting that day. It’s a testament to the power of affirmation by a parent for a child.. My mom went out and found a used electric typewriter for me, and helped me enroll in a high school summer journalism camp at the University of Missouri (where I’d later get my broadcast degree). I went on to write for my high school paper, and was on my way to my dream.
My mom died before I began journalism school, but throughout my education and working career I have been fueled by her affirmation. I’m aware of it and I’m empowered by her positive influence every day. I guess that makes me a momma’s boy, and as I noted with the players I talked to - being a momma’s boy isn’t a bad thing.








